[since we are here,we may as well stay and make the best of it;now that we have come,let us stay and take the rough with the smooth;now you are here,you'd better stay;since this is so,it's better to accept it and enjoy it] 既已來(lái)此,那就隨安于此

他果然既來(lái)之,則安之,我也只得因居之安,則資之深。——《兒女英雄傳》

《論語(yǔ)·季氏》：“夫如是，故遠(yuǎn)人不服，則修文德以來(lái)之。既來(lái)之，則安之?！?a href="/hycd/b/b26087.htm" target="_blank">本指招徠遠(yuǎn)人，并加以安撫。后指已經(jīng)來(lái)了，就應(yīng)該安下心來(lái)。 元 吳昌齡 《張?zhí)鞄?/a>》第一折：“既來(lái)之，則安之。仙子請(qǐng)坐，容小生遞一杯酒咱。”《醒世恒言·賣油郎獨(dú)占花魁》：“ 瑤琴 既來(lái)之，則安之?！?沙汀 《代理縣長(zhǎng)》：“好好養(yǎng)你的病吧－－既來(lái)之，則安之。”